Sheesh, I don’t know any of the players in this, but anyone who feels the need to rant–and if you’re using that many caps, you’re ranting–in response to a short, pointed blog post is a little too defensive.
Itunes reviews are not the appropriate place for a professional to express her opinion of her work done for her company.
And if a blogger asks to review your product, you certainly don’t have to give it to them, but it’s polite and professional to reply.